birth control Archives - familydoctor.org https://familydoctor.org/tag/birth-control/ Health information for the whole family from the American Academy of Family Physicians. Thu, 19 Oct 2023 15:53:39 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.3.1 Birth Control: How to Use Your Diaphragm https://familydoctor.org/birth-control-how-to-use-your-diaphragm/ Mon, 01 May 2023 05:00:00 +0000 http://familydoctor.wpengine.com/birth-control-how-to-use-your-diaphragm/ A diaphragm is reusable dome-shaped cup that fits over the opening of a woman’s cervix and works as a form of birth control.

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Using a diaphragm is a form of birth control. It prevents pregnancy by creating a barrier between a woman’s uterus and a man’s sperm. A diaphragm is a reusable dome-shaped cup. It fits over the opening of the cervix. It is common to use a diaphragm with spermicide. This is a gel, cream, or foam that kills sperm.

There are 4 types of diaphragms. They are made of either latex or silicone. The most common type is the arching spring diaphragm. It has a firm rim and is easiest to insert. It works best for women who have weak vaginal muscle tone. The coil spring diaphragm has a soft rim that is flexible. It works best for women who have average vaginal muscle tone. The flat spring diaphragm is similar but has a thin rim. It works best for women who have strong vaginal muscle tone. You can use a diaphragm introducer tool to insert both the coil spring and flat spring types. The wide seal rim diaphragm is a silicone option. It is best for women who are allergic or sensitive to latex. It comes in arching spring or coil spring shapes.

See your primary care doctor or gynecologist to get a diaphragm. They will help you decide which type of diaphragm is best and prescribe it for you. They will do an exam to measure you and find the correct size. If it is too small, it may fall out or not block sperm. If it is too big, it will cause discomfort. The most common size is 75 millimeters (mm). It is important that your diaphragm fits right. Your doctor will show you how to insert it properly and help you practice. It should rest right behind your pubic bone.

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Once your doctor fits you and you’ve practiced inserting your diaphragm, you are ready to use it.

Get your diaphragm ready. Before you insert your diaphragm, you should apply spermicide to it. Put about 1 teaspoon of it in the cup, or dome. Spread it around the rim of the diaphragm. Do not use petroleum jelly or oil-based vaginal creams, such as Monistat. These can make tiny holes in the diaphragm. You also can put some spermicide in your vagina.

Insert your diaphragm. You can do this from several positions. It is best to lie down, squat, or stand with one leg propped up. Your legs need to be open wide. Bending your knees can help. Once you’re in position, follow these steps:

  • Use one hand to fold the diaphragm in half with the dome pointing down. Hold your vagina open with your other hand.
  • Put the diaphragm into your vagina and aim for your tailbone. Push the diaphragm as far back into your vagina as you can.
  • Use one finger to push the front rim of the diaphragm up behind your pubic bone. Aim for your belly button.

Check the placement of your diaphragm. With your finger, feel for your cervix through the dome of the diaphragm. The cervix will feel firm, but not bony. It feels a bit like the tip of your nose. If you cannot feel your cervix or if it is not covered, then the diaphragm is out of place. You need to remove the diaphragm, apply more spermicide, and insert it again. The diaphragm should not fall out when you cough, squat, sit down, or walk. The diaphragm is in place if it is above your pubic bone.

Use your diaphragm. You must use your diaphragm correctly each time you have sex. With spermicide, this method can prevent pregnancy. You should never use a diaphragm during your menstrual period. You will need to use another form of birth control at this time. Do not douche while you use a diaphragm. Do not leave a diaphragm in your vagina for more than 24 hours. This can cause irritation, infection, or a medical condition called toxic shock syndrome.

You need to apply more spermicide if you have sex more than once. Put some in your vagina, but do not remove your diaphragm. After sex, leave your diaphragm in place for at least 6 hours. To remove your diaphragm, hook your finger on the front rim. Gently pull it down and out. Try not to tear a hole in it with your fingernails.

Take care of your diaphragm. Wash your diaphragm with mild soap and water after each use. Rinse it off and allow it to air dry. Store the diaphragm in a container that is cool and dry. Check your diaphragm often for holes, tears, or leaks. To do this, fill the dome with water and look for damage. If you find any, do not use the diaphragm again. Get a new one from your doctor. If you keep using it, you increase your risk of getting pregnant.

Things to consider

Once a year, your doctor should check the fit of your diaphragm. It should be replaced about every 2 years. You will need a new one if you have a baby, have pelvic surgery, or gain or lose more than 15 pounds.

When you use a diaphragm and spermicide together, the prevention rate ranges from 70% to 99%. The large range leaves room for misuse. Diaphragms do not protect you from sexually transmitted infections (STIs). They also can cause urinary tract infections (UTIs).

Call your doctor if you have any of the following problems:

  • Vaginal pain
  • Trouble urinating
  • Painful or frequent urination
  • Vaginal itching
  • Abnormal vaginal discharge
  • This can be a sign of toxic shock syndrome

Questions to ask your doctor

  • Why should I use a diaphragm over another form of birth control?
  • Are there any reasons why I can’t use a diaphragm and/or spermicide?
  • Does my insurance cover a diaphragm?

Resources

American Family Physician: Diaphragm Fitting

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Busting Period Myths https://familydoctor.org/busting-period-myths/ Fri, 02 Jul 2021 14:03:48 +0000 https://familydoctor.org/?p=63277 When it comes to your period, you may have more questions than answers. When does it start? How often does it come? Can certain foods affect how you feel? In your search for details, you may have found information you think is factual. But some of it may be a myth, instead. Below are some common myths about your period—and […]

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When it comes to your period, you may have more questions than answers. When does it start? How often does it come? Can certain foods affect how you feel? In your search for details, you may have found information you think is factual. But some of it may be a myth, instead. Below are some common myths about your period—and the real facts to counter them.

But before we look at the myths, let’s look at the basics your period. Its technical name is menstruation. It begins as you go through puberty and your body develops the hormones estrogen and progesterone. These hormones cause an egg to be released from one of your ovaries. The egg then travels down your fallopian tube to your uterus. If the egg meets a sperm, you may become pregnant. If the egg doesn’t meet a sperm, it falls apart and your uterus sheds its lining. This lining leaving your body is your period.

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Myth: You should get your first period before you’re 14 years of age.

Fact: Most individuals get their first period between 11 and 14 years of age. But every body is different. Don’t worry if you get yours when you’re younger or older than that. However, if you don’t have your first period by the time you’re 15 years of age, talk to your doctor.

If you want to get an idea of when you’ll start having periods, your body may give you clues. Your first period usually comes about 2 years after your breasts start to develop. You may also notice you begin having vaginal discharge. That usually happens between 6 and 12 months before your period begins.

Myth: It’s okay to feed your sweet tooth while on your period.

Fact: You may crave sweets during your period. That’s because your hormones are in flux and your blood sugar levels may be changing. But don’t give in to these cravings. While it’s fine to eat a small amount of sweets, don’t go overboard.

Eating processed sugars provides a quick burst of energy—but it doesn’t last long. What follows is called a sugar crash. After a sugar crash, you may feel tired or have a headache. You also may feel grouchy, anxious, or depressed. Avoiding processed sugars may help you keep your emotions on an even keel.

Steering clear of sugars can help your waistline, too. Overeating any of these foods can cause weight gain. Instead, reach for healthy foods during your period. The following foods have even been shown to reduce pain caused by cramps:

  • Fruits
  • Vegetables
  • Whole grains, such as whole-grain bread, brown rice, and oatmeal
  • Legumes, including peas, beans, and lentils
  • Foods high in omega-3, such as tuna, salmon, and walnuts

Myth: You should skip your workout while on your period.

Fact: Grab your weights or hit the gym, even during your period. Not only is exercise great for your body, it may help reduce the pain of menstrual cramps. A good workout also can relieve stress. Cardio is best, even something as simple as a brisk walk around the block. The key is to exercise all month, not just during your period. Aim for at least 30 minutes a day, 5 days a week.

Myth: You can’t get pregnant while on your period.

Fact: While it’s uncommon, you can get pregnant while on your period. This is especially true if you have a short menstrual cycle—meaning you have a shorter time than usual between your periods.

Cycles are counted from the first day of your period to the first day of your next period. For most individuals, that’s usually 28 to 30 days. Ovulation typically happens 4 days before to 4 days after the half-way mark in your cycle. Ovulation is the day your ovaries release an egg to travel down your fallopian tubes to your uterus. For a person on a traditional cycle, ovulation would usually happen between days 10 and 19.

If your cycle is shorter than 28 to 30 days, you will ovulate earlier. That means you won’t have as much time between your period and your next ovulation date. For example, if you have 23 days between your periods, you could ovulate as early as day 7. So if you have sex toward the end of your period, you may be able to get pregnant. That’s because an egg can live in your uterus up to 24 hours, and sperm can live in your uterus for up to 5 days. Having sex toward the end of your period increases the chances for the egg and sperm to meet and result in pregnancy.

Myth: You shouldn’t skip your period.

Fact: It is not uncommon to skip a period every once in a while. There are many reasons. You may miss a month if you’re under a lot of stress, you’re exercising more, or you’ve started or stopped using hormonal birth control. Additionally, irregular periods are common in individuals who have just started menstruating and people who are close to menopause. There are other reasons, too. If you miss two periods in a row, talk with your doctor. They will likely do a pregnancy test. If you’re not pregnant, they can help you determine next steps.

Things to consider

If you’re a parent, you may feel uncomfortable discussing menstruation with your child. However, don’t be embarrassed. Periods are a natural part of life and it’s important to talk to you child about them. Here are some ways to make it more comfortable:

  • Begin discussing menstruation before you child reaches puberty. That way, they will know what to expect whenever their period starts.
  • Instead of sitting down for a one, long conversation, have several smaller chats.
  • Encourage your child to come to you with questions, instead of going to friends or the Internet. If you don’t know the answer to a question, tell them you’ll find the answer and get back to them.

If you want to know what you should tell your child, or if you’re still uncomfortable discussing it, talk with your doctor. They will be able to give you tips on how to talk about this body change in a way that’s educational—and comfortable—for both you and your child.

Questions to ask your doctor

  • I got my period before I was 11 years old. Is that normal?
  • What else can I do during my period to relieve cramps?
  • Sometimes I skip more than one period and am not pregnant. Is there something wrong with me?
  • Sometimes my period is light and sometimes it’s heavy. Why is it different?
  • What if my periods are so painful that I can’t even do normal activities?

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